Chickie, let me first tell you that I asked FA to come over here. He is very knowledgable and truth be told an even better straight shooter than I am. So do not discount what he says, he speaks from vast knowledge.

what do I think of that, I think you need to do what I suggested to you. It's not all about what works sometimes, it's also about what you can accept and being walked all over by this guy while he is screwing someone else. Let me put it to you this way Chickie, take the marriage and kids out of the equation here. If you were simply dating this guy what would you do? I thought so.....


Ian


M- 48
XW- mentally 17
KIDS- 3- S19, D23, D28
Married- 17 years
Divorce final- 10/16/09