RGM ~ As you posted to me earlier, you know I am a former WAW/MLCer. You asked my opinion but I have a question for you after reading your wife's post.

Have you ever honestly turned the mirror around and looked at yourself?

Having been here this long, you have surely had time for introspection but it seems any insight you may have gained and/or changes you might have made is/are not being conveyed well to your wife.

Sorry if you have done this and you and regular posters to you have a different perception than I do. I do not mean to offend you.

I will say this though: If you spend your whole time here discovering and fighting her demons, what do you suppose yours are up to?

Again, if you have truly walked this part of the journey, I apologize.