Well she thought it was an amazing sign that her mom called to tell me how much she loves me and misses me. She said that it couldn't have gone better. Which was some reassurance for me, cause I was really on the fence. I didn’t know if she was calling to say goodbye for good, or something like, ‘hey jackass call her!!!’
From her advice, I decided to call her mom and tell her how much it made my day that she let me know that, and that I have been thinking about them a lot too. The tricky part was, she was concerned that it would lead to a conversation about the R. So what I did was I sent her a voicemail, kind of like if you don't have service then someone calls you and leaves a message. So I decided to do that early this morning 5am. She also suggested that I try to make contact with the gf and suggest meeting up for lunch, which I really didn't know how to do.
But luckily fate was on my side last night. After I got home from my training (I have began boxing again somewhat of a 180), and she had sent me a txt saying, 'Ur gift meant a lot to mom. Thank you.' Needless to say I was shocked! This was my first goal was for her to txt me. I didn't know if I should say something back, so I took my time to think about it and this is what I said. 'Your welcome. I hope she starts feeling better. Sorry I haven't responded to your email, I have been swamped. We should get together for lunch soon. What do you think?' That was at 10pm last night, and nothing yet. Part of me is upset she didn’t respond right away, I guess I’m greedy that way.
But also there is a good chance that even if she did txt me back I didn’t get it. Sometimes when she sends me messages, they don’t go through to me, something with the bad service in her apartment (that is if she is back). I don’t think she would be back just yet, she left on Sunday to Texas so I doubt she would be back yet. Tell me your thoughts on this logic. Maybe she txt me because I hadn’t called her mom back yet, and wanted to reach out to me somehow?
So anyway, this morning I sent her mom a nice voicemail. ‘Just wanted to thank you for the nice message, it really made my day. I have been good, just really busy with work. I have been thinking a lot about you guys too, I hope you start to feel better, and I want to let you know that I love you a lot too very much. Bye’. By far the hardest part was the bye, I didn’t want to say , ‘talk to you later’ or anything. I probably recorded it 4 times, before I sent it. Uhhhhh!
Well next is what to do. Should I wait until Friday or so, then respond to her email? That is what the DB coach said. But now that she has directly contacted me (txt), I’m not sure what to put in the email. I want to say this, ‘I hope you made it back ok, and had a relaxing time with your mom. I haven’t heard back from you about lunch, so I want to make sure you got my message. If you don’t want too I completely understand. I hope all is well. I have a couple things for your nephew, I don’t want to loose them in the move.’ Yeah, I bought a new loft that I’m moving into next month. Or should I just call her? What do you think?
