Well, I think I've pretty much decided that if he CHOOSES to cheat again (especially during this next year's deployment) and CHOOSES to tell me about it, he will be
G - O - N - E.

After all I have done to improve/fix/change, etc. our R and our M and my behavior as a W and feel that it is all VERY GOOD and he has it VERY GOOD, if he CHOOSES to cheat again, I will not be able to or want to try to forgive & forget again.

Thanks for your input \:\)


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10