Well, I think I've pretty much decided that if he CHOOSES to cheat again (especially during this next year's deployment) and CHOOSES to tell me about it, he will be G - O - N - E.
After all I have done to improve/fix/change, etc. our R and our M and my behavior as a W and feel that it is all VERY GOOD and he has it VERY GOOD, if he CHOOSES to cheat again, I will not be able to or want to try to forgive & forget again.
Thanks for your input
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10