Aud, You bring up a great point that I have been thinkng about alot lately....
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It's one thing to be forgiving and accepting, but it's quite another to condone BS. And it IS hard!
My question I keep asking myself is how can I forgive and accept when she continues to do hurtful things? I mean I really want to forgive her but it is really hard to continue to forgive someone that continually does things they know are hurtful.
It seems to me that you can not forgive someone that does not stop the hurtful acts that they are continuing to do. If they stopped then it would be a lot easier to forgive and accept. Until that time I just turn my head and choose to let it just roll off of my back...
Ben 32 STBXW 29 3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months) Status: Fighting for the Kids.
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