It's called confusion. I doubt she really knows what she wants and the fact that friends and family are telling her to decide isn't helping.
Patience is the one thing you have to have or develop to do this. I'm not particularly patient by nature, and this rocks me constantly. I don't know what to expect (so expect nothing) b/c he says he's done and wants a D yet to my knowledge he's done nothing to move it forward.
I know that's not what you want to hear, it's just the way it is. I don't htink her need for space has changed any. Remember she has to figure this out. Others can't do it for her.
