12_51 My heart still goes out to you. But please don't beat yourself up over what is going on. Remember, we can only control ourselves, and we have to be careful to not read into things, either + or -. I know that's hard, because it's part of our nature. For example, my W calls our sep. as a "wake-up call". but I have to make sure I don't put all my hopes on this. After all, I imagine, as may be the case with your W, her emotions may be swinging all over the place. There have been some really good suggestions on this thread, so keep your chin up, and think about how to change YOU!
