Fine,, he doesnt want to leave, that is his choice. So instead, detach at home. Do not cook for him, do not clean for him, nothing. Make him take care of his own sh^t, do not cater to his needs. Screw your wifely duties, they go out the window until he starts treating you like a wife again. Do not sit around and watch tv with him, do not talk with him about anything other than the kids or finances. Do not be his wife right now. Make him see what life will be without you.
Just M is dead on, men want the unattainable and right now he knows he has you. Not for nothing but make sure you always look your best when he is home. Wear something sexy, be desirable to him. Make sure he see's what he is missing. Also, anytime you leave the house when he is there, dress sexy, look great going out and make him wonder what the hell you are doing. Do not share with him where you are going, ever, let him wonder what the hell is up.
Chicki, it is time to take the bull by the horns and show this clown that you have tha capability to live without his cheating a$s. He needs to see that your not afraid of losing him and that you don't want him right now. Very, very important.
