JustM, I was detaching so good for a while there and H started (a little bit coming around, but H also thought I was seeing someone else). He just did not seem to care enough I think....
I have told him to move out actually Many times! Last two weeks thats ALL I was saying to him and thats when he started staying @ OW's house more often including the weekdays and then evry other night. I was even sleeping better since I knew he was not just down the hallway from me.
Thanks.
Sofaraway,
Please tell it like it is! Thats what I like about you!! That is why I called on you. I will start to detach again...You see I have told him over and over again to move out and he say NO b/c "this is my house". I also have told him to leave until the D papaers are filed at least. The more I tell him to leave which by the way a week ago that was ALL I would say conversation wise, the more he says no. H is like a child or like THING 1 & THING 2, he will do or say the opposite of what is asked!!
