GK99 wrote: "I want to be firm in telling her that I do not agree with divorce, especially as a first option. But I do not want to argue with her either. It's a tough spot we're in because if we argue, we just strengthen their resolve to leave. But if we are doormats, they won't respect us. "
Simply state your position regarding the situation. Don't argue or waiver, just make a statement and shut up. If she goes off, listen to her and leave when she is done. No retorts.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
