She's moving out and says that it's permanent

[MJontheMend]

I was thinking I could do you a really huge favor and give you a copy of the erotic free verse poem that one of the HD guys I've been e-mailing sent me. There is no way it wouldn't get your wife's attention. It might even make her cry. However, I would only do this if you promised cross-your-heart-hope-to-die style that you would actually initiate sex 3x a week with your wife in the future NO MATTER WHAT!!

I do not think 3x a week is unreasonable because my sister has cervical cancer and when you get radiation for that you have to have sex 3x a week every week afterwards pretty much forever in order to maintain vaginal health and flexibility. My friend who is an oncology nurse who I've been talking to about the issue said it is kind of funny to see the husbands reactions when she tells them about this as they try to mask their glee under a generally calm, sympathetic, supportivehusband-of-cancer-survivor reaction.

So pretend like your relationship has cancer and commit to the cure!