I didn't mean to make it sound like guys don't think all the time. I didn't express myself the way I intended to. I really should keep it simply between my H and myself. My H doesn't have a constant running dialogue in his head like I do.
Now, unless he was lying in the C's office this is the case. We discussed this one day. My H has this habit of sitting with a scowl on his face, he often looks really peeved. So it prompts me to ask what he's thinking about, or what's wrong. That was the discussion....he said he REALLY isn't thinking about ANYTHING when I ask that question. He's often just simply concentrating on the tv. When he is concentrating on something in his mind...often he drives me nutz because he'll start a sentence mid-though. I have NO idea what in the world he's talking about. He often swears too that he told me what he was talking about LOL. He doesn't realize he's just started talking mid-thought and didn't put the whole thought out there for me to understand what he was saying....he's REALLY unaware. He almost had me convinced one time that I just wasn't paying attention until he did that with my family in the room (men and women)...he lost us all. LOL See Heywyre...we have a nother similarity LOL
But yes, I agree with you that like you when he is thinking about something it's usually a concetrated thought on something....unlike me who multi-tasks in my brain LOL. It's a very different way that our minds work. I want to stress too...that I don't believe that either denotes intelligence, my H is a VERY intelligent man, we just think differently.
