I guessed my wife's gmail password, and the inevitable result was excruciatingly painful. I did something really bold and stupid, and emailed the OM! That gave away the fact that I was reading her email. Since then we've taken a tiny baby step towards reconciliation, but she's still very angry about the "privacy violation." Funny thing is, part of me knew that she'd figure it out and I was kind of relieved when I couldn't do that any more.
