It's good that your state has a 1 year waiting period before D. In mine, I have 45 days from the time she files. No requirment to be separated for any period of time.
I talked with my wife last night by phone. That's when she said that she was moving out and that it's permanent.
We're suppose to talk in person tonight. I'm really not sure if I want to.
We were in C up until she left saying that she had really already made up her mind before we ever started C. I'm still going, but she isn't. Our C said that she's been trying to contact the W, but she won't return any calls.
I am really feeling numb. I've never felt this way before. I have been feeling that I must fight to save the marriage. May be I should face the facts and move on, but I really don't want to quit.