HB, so good to hear from you and affirming on some of the stuff that I am going through. I do believe about the burnout part. Your h may be good in not letting you see him struggle through the withdrawal or whatever it is with ending R with OW. Mine decided to just come back and now I have to deal with his depression (only 1 week into not seeing OW, but they are still talking). I am also looking for "more" but also know h is not ready to do that yet.
I can totally relate to the flashbacks. Tough, isn't it? I am sorry that you have to see OW at school.
Would h talk to you about why he wants to stay out till end of May? H has agreed to be open and honest with me, but only to the point that he can be honest to say, "he cannot tell me, or he is still not telling me everything, or he lied about certain part." Is your h willing to share some info with you, may be just current events on some of the reasons he wants to stay out still? That may keep you from guessing.
M 38, H 38, two sons Met 20 years ago Married 13 years Bomb: Oct, 2006 DB: Started in Dec, 2006 H moved out for 3 weeks in Mar, 2007 H back home and piecing?
