But how can I prevent her from selling stuff? Like her engagement ring. I don't know that she's thinking about doing that, but it did occur to me that would be a good way to raise cash if one needed it.
The engagement ring was a gift to her before the marriage, however, I would consider it part of the joint property.
How about expenses during separation. We've got a mortgage and I think she should pay her half. How about utilities. I like heat, A/C, and cable TV. Her moving out isn't my idea. Should I ask her to pay half of all things needed to keep the house running?
If she feels the financial pinch, will that help or hurt?
