Yes. I follow you. I only need half a chance and sex it is.
I'm now taking a testosterone drug that seems to be helping -- I can hardly get her to sit on the same couch right now, much less do her on the couch.
Also, I have a hard time thinking that we will ever be "friends" if the divorce is done. We might be able to be nice to each other, but not friends. I want her as my wife.
However, if I say that I won't be her friend right now it might harm the possibilites of her returning after separation.