Let's see, can I think of what I would do if I was your W. I would probably want my H to be as understanding as possible. I definitely would not expect him to help me move, but it would be nice if he offered at least. Perhaps you could offer and see what she says - if you don't have a problem with that.
She will have to decide what she wants to take. Obviously the less she takes, the better because that means there are still ties to you, right?
You aren't "aiding" her in this process. If she is bent on moving out, you have to let her make that decision. It doesn't mean she is gone for good. She might just need some time and space to ground herself again. Be her friend - she probably wants that more than anything right now.
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)
