I don't really know that my wife "wants to meet and talk". It was my call that got that going.
She probably feels that she needs to meet so that she could tell me what she is planning, but I don't think that she is wanting to meet to discuss anything positive for me. She said so tonight when we talked.
My guess is that I've got to let her go and then hope for the best. I really have no choice.
How do I do this? Should I help her move? Should she take everything she owns? I want to be polite, but I really don't want this to end -- I don't want to "aid" her in this process.