She's moving out and says that it's permanent

[Heywyre]

I guess the majority of us wouldn't have to be here if time healed everything, would we? The only thing about time is, it passes no matter what we do.

Who's to say how much time she will need. All you can do is give her the space, GAL, don't pressure her, make the changes you feel are necessary to show her you mean business and hopefully she will, in "time" see those things and perhaps realize that maybe, just maybe, there is still a chance.