I think delaying the filing does send a signal that she is still not 100% sure. However, she sure seems to have made up her mind.
Seems that she's just taking it step by step, but she keeps going in the same direction.
She says that she is not seeing anyone. She is still wearing her wedding ring (but not the engagement ring) and says that she'll remain faithful until the divorce is complete. However, I've wondered if she has someone "in mind", but just not seeing them yet.
I think that she's being truthful, but I also thought that she was giving counseling 100%. She now says that she had made up her mind before counseling began.
If she is seeing someone else, what tactics would I change?
What should I do now?
I'm thinking that there is no awy of stopping her moving out. I can just delay the divorce longer and hope that she'll come back.
I know she is really hurt and also mad. I really do understand that. But I can't understand why, if I'm willing to change and in counseling, she would give up.
