I've had several threads going, but I starting a new one here.

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My wife said tonight when we talked by phone that she loves me but that she is too hurt from our SSM to continue.

She says that my rejection was too much. She asked for a divorce in October. We agreed to counseling, things were getting better but we really hadn't addressed the sex issue. Now she said that she had really made up her mind in October. Now it is too late. Now it can't be fixed. Now she has no hope. She's given up.

I still have hope that things can be fixed. She said that she loves me, but she's lost all hope and the years of no intimacy and her begging for it is too much. She says that we don't have to get an attorney right away, but she see that it's permanent.

We're suppose to talk tomorrow night again. But I really don't see her changing her mind at this point.

What does every one else think? Is she gone forever? I really need support.