Quote: h says keep warm but doesn't bother to move.
I have a hard time falling asleep tossing and turning (consider for a moment going to sleep with son myself)
Well, he wanted to snuggle, right? Isn't that good? My W likes me to spoon her, so she doesn't really move when I make her warm. Am I missing something here? Why would you NOT want to snuggle and go sleep with S?
Quote: something is not right and I feel it!!!!
You know, LL, it's entirely possible that he's thinking the opposite of what you think? Maybe he feels ashamed? Maybe he's thinking about OM and regretting what he did? Maybe he's even kind of missing OM, but he's with you isn't he? If he was feeling like he didn't want to be with you, then why would he ask you to snuggle? Even if it was thoughts contrary to what you want, remember that it's two steps forward and one back.
You know, right now you and I are in very much the same boat. Today, my W is very distant and it's driving me crazy (WAW mode). I'm trying to act "happy," but it's hard. I just want to leave work and go do something by myself...not go home. I feel restless. I'm sure you do too.
It all comes down to us not knowing their thoughts. We can't really ask right now because that just causes more problems. I'm slowly beginning to wonder why I focus on my M so much instead of me. Why do the both of us? BTW, I'm very happy that you went to the "jim" last night. We will be okay, LL. Let's detach together today, okay? Cuz I need the help too...
