Do you think I could get wife to pay for it in any future settlement. \:\) It could be part of the support/maintenence that she pays ME. Wife is already fair, with blond hair blue eyes, I think I will look for a nanny who is more exotic.

I know what you mean about no time, but my girls have stepped up to the plate and have taken on more responsibility for watching S6, as well as more household chores. Now D12 is going out in the woods before school and picking wildflowers for the kitchen table. D14 has taken over a good chunk of the laundry, HER'S. \:\) Time will be even tighter next year, D14 tried out for HS cheerleading, and made both basketball and football squads.(1 of only 3 freshmen to make any squad!!!) D12 tries out for MS cheer in 2 weeks, but only basketball. S6 will start peewee football next year and still wants to play soccer as well.

The kids are masterful DBers, When mom calls, they are very cheerful and interested, but only talk to her for a few min and as the convo lags they say OK, love ya, here's the next kid. S6 is usually last to talk and he has never been a big fan of the telephone, so he just says Hi, tells her about whatever he is doing at the moment and then tells her good bye, kiss kiss. How that doesn't kill her I will never understand. I have kept to the same routine, very few words, but very cheerful and ask after her day, but don't come up with additional things to talk about, if there is a pause, I quickly say let me get the kids for you. She does not ask to talk to me when she is done with the kids.

Wel I have to go pick one up from the track meet. Back in awhile.


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Me 43, waw 44, 3 kids(D15,D12,S6)Married 19yr, together 27yr. Bomb 11/27/06, Separated 3/1/07 Divorce filed 4/18/07,

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