Concentration on the important or just not being able to walk and chew gum at the same time? Sorry Lou, couldn't resist
There are numerous times my H is REALLY not thinking about anything. It's the way his mind works. And some of the time, there are a million things going through his mind all at the same time, he talks in half sentences, changes subjects and doesn't tell anyone he's having a conversation with that he's doing so and therefore all his sentences are disjointed and don't make any sense at all - it drives his friends nuts, I could go on but you get the point. I have just got used to the way he talks, even the C has said to me on occasion "do you know what he just said?" and when I tell him, he confirms with my H who says "ya" and looks at him as if to say "didn't you know that" and the C will say "that's amazing". The C feels we make a good couple, complimenting each other in our weaknesses and strengths. What he does well, I don't and vice versa. Like I told the C, together we make one REALLY good person
As much as his way of thinking used to confuse me to no end, it also fascinated me and was part of the attraction. Now I just look at it as one of the little pieces that forms the whole person that I love
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)