I'll check out that book (gee whiz, YOU rememered my preference for audio books, CL! You are a thoughtful guy!!!) I am open to anything at this point (well, almost anything). I really need to get back into detaching!! I was getting decent at it before, but now I'm lousy. I am proud of myself for not calling H, although I did a text message last night while waiting to pick up D16. I just asked about his day. He answered back immediately. Then D16 showed up so I sent another TM with just a quick "good night".

H was at the house today while I was at work. Both his car and truck are missing now. Can't figure that out unless he loaned one to someone. I can't believe he'd want them both out of the garage (they are "his toys"). One idea popped into my head.....I could report a missing vehicle. That made me smile.

H's timing is SO PERFECT! My parents 60th anniversary celebration is Friday. Everyone will ask about H. They will think he's not there because of his job (which is partly true). I certainly won't talk about my situation....don't want to dampen any of the spirits there. Just hope someone doesn't catch me off guard and I start crying!

D16 asked if H wanted to come to dinner and he declined (he had told her he would be over, but obviously he came earlier). She said he sounded mad. At least D16 is keeping in touch with him. She has called him every day right after school That is a good thing. Of course, it's not even been one week yet!

Matilda