Quote: days like I have reported previously occuring did occur a year ago too.
Yes, but were they occurring two months ago? When I heard you say this I thought of a color analogy. For example, our Ses become gray when they are "thinking" about OP, then when they start acting on their feelings the gray steadily gets darker to black. So, in your sitch, I see him coming from the black back into the gray. Soon, I hope, things will be yellow like sunshine, my dear! It's kind of like a pendulum...it swung one way and now it's surpased the midpoint and is swinging the other way. Jeez...now I'm mixing metaphors. I'm gonna stop while I'm ahead...
Quote: how am I to know that ow is really gone???
I guess you just have to trust him? I know, easier said than done, but what choice do you have? I think, and you posted this later, that you will know for sure when some of the things that used to occur when you knew he "loved" you, occur again?
Quote: I never did get to hear the supposed phone calls telling her the "friendship" is to cease?
Well, let's face it, LL, I heard this conversation only this morning and it doesn't really mean crap does it...now that I think about it? I mean, as soon as I left for work, my W could just as easily called him to talk it over some more? Again...trust...
Quote: so what has set me off???
the looming thought is always there.
takes little...
I know, LL. I can only imagine how incredibly frustrating it is when you want some answers and some assurances, and he doesn't want to talk about it. I think the only way you're going to feel right is when your H willing shows "some more empathy and guilt for what has happend." However, you said "more" here, so is there much more he can say to you to make you feel better, or is it just repeats of what he's said already? Just curious.
Quote: tonight I have my appointment to have a tour of the gym to see if I like it so at least I have somewhere to go tonight.
Quote: h to start saying ily (ok jethro you can kick me for this one now)
I think the only way you're going to feel right is when your H willing shows "some more empathy and guilt for what has happend." However, you said "more" here, so is there much more he can say to you to make you feel better, or is it just repeats of what he's said already? Just curious.
