LL - Jethro pointed out some positives so I won't repeat them - but I'll stay far away from that Viagra suggestion. But what I wouldn't give for a nice cuddle with W even if it didn't lead to anything!

And having screwed things up in my R with W almost a year ago, I understand how difficult it is to give up the anger and hurt. But your H is choosing to be with you and your children - to participate in your daily life. And those topics will come up in the future. But you know the drill...

Have a great day, LL - and plenty of hugs for those kids!

Bob