Discorded, Jim and the rest are right - what a picture for H to keep in his mind. And don't think that he won't, either.
Sorry that the ski trip was not a total success - although there were some positives. Maybe the next time H sees you in a tub filled with bubbles, he'll get a clue.
BTW - got Michele's "The Sex-Starved Marriage" in the mail yesterday and read some of it last night - the first four chapters, I believe. She's done a very thorough job so far in explaining the differing causes of low sexual desire in spouses (physical as well as psychological) so that those of us who have higher libidos can understand their point of view. Once I finish the book, I'll likely take Michele's advice and leave it where W has an opportunity to find it. Doubt she'll read it, though - complaining is her game, not finding solutions.
And don't think that he won't, either.
can understand their point of view. Once I finish the book, I'll likely take Michele's advice and leave it where W has an opportunity to find it. Doubt she'll read it, though - complaining is her game, not finding solutions. 
