Listen to NOP re: the fact that the A is not your fault. I have to time & again remind myself that, no matter how bad our M was, no matter what "transgressions" or mistakes I made in the M, my H made the CHOICE to have an A. He could have made the better CHOICE to talk & talk to me until his face turned blue or even to have dropped the D bomb years ago, but he made the CHOICE to cheat instead. I had nothing to do w/ that CHOICE. Hang in there!
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
