Quote: well when I started folding I gave h ow's bill and asked that he do something with it so that I wouldn't be tempted to do something nasty with it. h took it and ripped it up in little peices and put it in the trash? well say's I, now how will you get paid? h says I'll just print up a new copy.
Hey, that's great. In his own way, he gave you a kind of release. I think that was thoughtful, no?
Quote: went back down and let him know that I feel that the main cause of our problems is that our sex drives don't match. that I want it more than he does, that I get angry, resentful, depressed, feel unatractive, un-feminie etc. then all the little things become a source of frustration to me. basically the conversation just got no where til h just said "you're just misserable"
LL, I'm kind of getting stuck on some of this stuff myself. Not so much sex, but other "expectations." I think it's so frustrating for us because we're trying to work things out, we're trying to act like normal M couples do, but our Ses are not normal and they don't give in the way we need (or request) them to. Hence, your next remark:
Quote: I really want this r to work out in a way that we can both be happy and not have to fully compromise who we each are to make it work.
Hey, that's great. In his own way, he gave you a kind of release. I think that was thoughtful, no?
