Also,
She sent me some pictures of her and the girls and she wasn't wearing her wedding band. I sorta freaked out about it since she has "male" friends that aren't any of my business. Don't know if she is having an affair and won't ask because the DB coach told me not to. She is also moving out of our old place into a bigger apt while I am away and says little things that bother me. Like she hasn't moved "her" bed, which to me is our bed. Is that ridiculous on my part but it bothers me when I hear things like that and wonder if I am being led along because she is financially secure right now and doesn't have to work. Easy for her to fit into this situation because I am not there and she can basically do what she wants without having to put any effort into this marriage. While I am 6000 miles away burning at the chop to save this marriage. I think sometimes that I am crazy for putting effort forth!!


Me=35
W=40
2 children
Married almost 7 years
Bomb dropped: Too many to count
Counseling 3x's
Dealing with WAW. Seperated