Tyler, How do you handle the setbacks? It seems after I tried the 180 and stopped pursuing, I missed the baby steps and then reverted back to my old ways of wanting to talk about the R. This just pushed it further away so then I get the setbacks and wonder if I can continue and if I made the right choice. I have been trying this from far away and the emails and phone calls don't seem to do much. She says she needs to spend time around me to see if she can love me again. Is that a baby step or am I just fooling myself? When I get back from deployment she does want to take a vacation with me and my children so that to me is a huge step but in my mind I wonder if she is just doing it for the girls? Hard to tell where and what to do from here.
Me=35 W=40 2 children Married almost 7 years Bomb dropped: Too many to count Counseling 3x's Dealing with WAW. Seperated
