Tyler,
I admire your persistence, given your W's distance and coldness.
It took about five months into my situation before the "ice" began to thaw. We still have a long way to go, but at least the platonic connection is improving. I hope your W's "ice" thaws too at some point.

It sounds like the DB coach is keeping you grounded. It's also a good sign that you're back posting to us.

I'll keep checking-in on you.

CL

CL 53 W 54
M 20 yrs.
03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL
10-14' Piecing

"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."

----Tao Te Ching