Quoting LL:we went back to the room and I poored a bath with way too many bubbles and turned on the jets. invited h in. then h decided we should get dressed and go down to dinner. I told him he'd have to shave my legs first, which he did, then we drained the tub and took a shower. then got dressed. (all that work up and no good stuff?)
No lovin' in the tubbin"?!?! That bites! I don't think you could have screamed your intentions any louder.
Quoting LL:claims that no matter what he did it was never enough for me. he was never good enough for me.
Deflecting OW guilt?
Quoting LL:so when we got home gf was thrilled to see us (she doesn't have kids so spending that much time alone with two was an eye opener for her)
LOL!
Okay, LL, I'm gonna get you now. So, in your post you mentioned many of the frustrations that you had with your trip--no lovin' in the tubbin', H at the bar, phone call, R talk in the car. But, what I want to know is, what GOOD things happened? Did you have fun? C'mon, lay it out!
Quoting RJJ:Friends of mine have pointed out that my H seems to be going to extremes to prove himself in his work (I have more schooling than he does). I think it's a male ego thing. Not their fault (I don't think of my H as particularly "macho") but it is deeply engrained!
Well, RJJ, we are the proverbial providers you know...
