MariS, W has only acknowledge letter to the point, when I asked her if she were still willing to sit down and talk, she threw several of the written points back in my face. I guess I understand her POV for me writing the letter. I should kind of expect it. S8 holding up as best as can be expected. He doesn't know of the pending D sitch, but he's holding up as far as W/M constantly changing her attitude and being very distant and cold to him. He's become very sensative again, to everything that's said. He's always afraid he's done something wrong and is apologizing. All I can do is try to come behind and console.
W hasn't moved downstairs, as of yet. I don't know if it's b/c she's having second thoughts or trying to do it w/o me around. I've got a business trip coming up. I have a feeling she'll use that time to start packing stuff up again, taking all her stuff to storage and deposit boxes.
I've had lots of contact w/ mutual f over the last week. Mainly just e-mails. W has been very distant and not very open to their support. They're not trying to take sides, but she thinks they are. They're just trying to be there for both of us and the boys. They've known W for 16 yrs and me for 20. Some are even Ss godparents.
