Quote: I'm just afraid that five or ten years down the line you'll become a WAW because your H spent too much time at work. Is this not a rather large red flag?
huge red flag!! but something that hopefully we are working toward fixing. h is understanding that alot of the complaining and nagging I did was due to his not being around and h now realizing that some of his not being around was due to my nagging. yes in the begining he HAD to be working, he was the only employee, but as time went on he had a bit more freedom, but by then he was spent on me and therefore saught the companionship of ow (he would say it just happend, she was after all a customer he didn't have to seek to far)
h realizes the danger of overworking I realize the danger of nagging him about work.
the winter is the winter, can't really schedule when it will snow now can we??
but the summers should show some of what h has learned from this experience (hey after all ow is married to a working man as well don't think h wants me to be like ow now does he?? NOPE!!) I have heard h mention scheduling himself a day off midweek or even being able to come home early. actually when we first moved in to the new house h did come home early every day...then I started to "pressure" for the second baby and all went to hell!! that is also about the time h started to hang with ow.
