Thats kind of what I was planning on, except she is such a sweetheart I know she will want to know how I'm doing and everything.
I scheduled an appointment with Jodi (DB coach) tonight to get her advice, so I will post what she thinks. I guess my main concern with calling her is for me to keep strong. Her mom and I are very close and I consider her family, so I will probably break down. I will keep you posted, thanks Heywyre you are always insightful.