LL - we get the same sort of crap but that only started after we signed up for cable internet about four months ago. It bothers my W as well but she cannot blame that one in any way on me.
Your ISP should have a procedure for reporting spam / offensive e-mails, etc. If it is like ours (Road Runner through our Time Warner cable service), they ask that you forward the e-mail to them so that they can log and track. What happens after that, I have no idea...
I hope that your weekend getaway happens - God knows you deserve it! Also hope that H gets a clue and starts "pleasing" you...
