You know that is something my H was really upset about, that I didn't make his lunch on a regular basis, in fact, I hardly ever made it, and sometimes I would tell him to just pick something up somewhere. Now, I am happy to fix his lunch, and although he will still refer to back when I wouldn't make it or when I fussed about it, I know he appreciates it. And it is a healthier lunch for him, and I always put a letter in it, and tell him I appreciate him for different things, even putting gas in my car, or us having a special tv night. And maybe telling him something funny. Although I try to write it when H isn't around, he sometimes has caught me writing the letter, and will joke about it like saying, Dear H, I love you so much, etc..., but I know he is really pleased that I have started giving him the affirmation he deserves. That is why the two books I have, Sacred Marriage, and Sacred Influence are important to me to help me see that these things are so important to men, they want and need to be appreciated. About making sex fun, I have thought about some of the little costumes available. Check out amazon.com and see what they have in apparel.
