Quote: maybe he feels threatend that I may meet more people "like me" there, maybe a man more like me?
This was my first thought...
Quote: anyone who knows h, would never see him as insecure or sensitive, infact most view him as pretty confident in himself.
IMHO, I have to say that any S that behaves like our Ses is not confident. My W did what she did out of insecurity. Is it possible your H did the same and is threatened by you really taking yourself up a notch? Maybe he's always felt inferior because he never finished school like you? Like I previously said, I'm simply thinking outloud and throwing this out there, as I have no clue either way...
