LL - I wish that I could trudge through the snow and give you and your darling kids a great big hug. But seeing that I'm down here in NC, this will have to do:
((((((((((((LostLove))))))))))))
I've been keeping up with your sitch but haven't gotten any flashes of insight. Like you, I don't like how I am feeling about my spouse either. What we both understand is the power of choosing to love someone unconditionally - that no matter how they treat us, we can rise up, look beyond it and embrace all parts of them.
Like you I have my doubts about what my final outcome will be. One thing that I do know is that you WILL be - strike that, you ARE - a winner. You show that every day to your kids - you show that to your H even though he may not deserve it. OW does not deserve to be on your radar screen at all - act as if she does not exist any more. I never cease to be amazed at the grace, charm, strength and feminimity that you and the other lady posters show here.
I hope that you make your day a good one and I'll try to do the same...
