Cobra IMO, it doesn’t matter what his method was. It only matters that he felt he had to resort to some type of method to get her attention. If I were Chrome, I would not have done it to get Mrs. Chrome's attention. It would have been more about her rejection/lack of interest in Chrom.
From my experiences, it is difficult and extreemly frustrating to be in a r with a W and thinking if I do certain things, "we" will have a good R. So I do those certain things and am ignored anyway.
Cobra, it's more like I have these things I want to happen in a R and it builds and builds till something leaks out and someone sees a value in what I am trying to give my W. Someone sees value in what I believe in. That feels good.
[b] Their whole life revolves around they partner or their parents doing the right thing. It is all shame-based driven. ]/b] BTDT.
On moJo's thread, I made some inappropriate comments. MoJo straightened it up, saying she took the coments from the guys here as the guys wishing their W would do/say some of the things MoJo did, rather than the guy hitting on her/MoJo.
