ok so c very much wants me to go back to school. I don't think there has been a session yet since the idea was first brought up (by me) that he hasn't mentioned it. My mention of getting a part time job was his window of opportunity this time.
I'd love to go back to school, work on getting that masters so that by the time the kids are in school full time I can get right to the real job. but h seems to have an issue with the money? I wonder if it is just the money or if there is some other resignation in there.
when we met I was a junior in hs and h was a sophmore in college, h never did finish, dropped out to start his business, I continued on to get a bs and worked. I have brought up the going to school thing with h and is doesn't seem like a possitive in his eyes, says why don't I see what I can do with the degree I already have now. thing is I know I will need the masters to get any decent job (isn't that the way) and why not work on that now while I am home with the kids rather than wait til they are in school work somewhere else making the money to pay for it. I don't see that it would be any huge financial burden, hey h, here's a thought, give up the appartment and use that rent money to pay for my schooling?? what d'ya think of that. $ for school issue solved. my viewing the appartment as your still not being fully commited to our m gone. two issues resolved in one shot. hmmmmmm? that makes too much sense though doesn't it. oh but let me guess the money for that apt doesn't come from our household budget? so then neither does my schooling!
