It's a fine line COG. As much as my H doesn't want someone that is "needy" he definitely wants someone that needs him. That was/is one of the MAJOR issues in our R. He always felt that I was very independent and didn't need him - however, that was one of the reasons he found me attractive - go figure!

I have been trying to get him to see that you can need someone without being needy and I think it is sinking in

Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
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Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)