This might sting a bit... but what you have to realize is you are probably now back at the point you were before the EA/PA happened. You were just diverted the last three years dealing with that...
All the problems that were there prior to your missteps have been sitting there quietly waiting for you. Though I would never say that your H wasn't hurt or angry... you did give him a three year repreive from dealing with his own issues... because your transgressions trumped everything else. That doesn't mean that what led up to or contributed to you making those missteps went away.
This was kind of my point with Mrs. Chrome.
Now might be the time for you all to head back to MC. Your man still has issues that need addressing.
It's good to vent here... but maybe you should share your last post with him via email... just so he knows how you are feeling?
