My H is very intelligent however, that also makes him VERY head strong when it comes to his opinions, especially when it is me confronting him. Of course, if someone else says the exact same thing to him, other than me, he might think "what a wonderful idea" but never validate that it was ME that said it in the first place. He is getting better at that.
Are you sure your H is just speaking another language and cannot hear you, or could it be that he hears you perfectly well but won’t acknowledge you because you two are stuck in a power struggle and that is his P/A way of retaliating? The effect under either possibility looks the same, but the reason are completely different. The first has nothing to do with you. The latter was 50% to do with you.
