yes jw, when I finally just "gave up" and accepted that h just wasn't comming home. That is when things started to change. that is not to say that I stopped "wanting" for h to come home, or gave up all hope that he ever would, I simply just accepted it. Hell I even started to worry what if he decides to come back and I'm not sure if I want him to, what will I do then? luckily enough h decided to come back before the point of no return (if there even is one).
