ACJ,

Thanks for the visual. If I've learned one thing over the past six years, it is that I can not fix my W. I think your idea is awesome, and it's cool that you've grown by it, but it's up to my W to seek out her source of change. I'm confident she'll come around sexually someday, but I've let go the idea that I can fix her. Honestly, I think something like what you did would probably help stimulate her too. What a healthy thing for you to do. Your next man will be VERY blessed.

Thanks for sharing.

COG


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