Quote: I worry sometimes, I don't want to push him away and it seems the way he came home was by me just "goind dark" and acting "as if" well what do you do once they come home????
Well, although my W was at home, she wasn't mentally. Tell you what, LL, when you discover the answer to this question, please pass it on my way. I don't know what the hell to do?!?!
Quote: think this morning I told h like 5 times that I love him, even once called him and said "do you know" h "know what" "how much I love you" I haven't said it for so long I want to say it all the time but can't.
How does he respond, LL? Does he reciprocate those words? I understand this need, and I also understand that by saying it it's more pressure. Maybe in your sitch it's not quite as much pressure as in mine.
You talked about doing this and that (like a job) to keep yourself busy. Do you think if you really went after it, it would be the same as when you acted "as if" to get your H back? In other words, do you think by doing your own thing, it will bring your H closer? Seemed like it worked before...
